Motherhood, Meaning, and the Road Ahead ft. Riley Gaines

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Here I am. 00:00:46 Speaker 2: Lord, Use me. 00:00:48 Speaker 1: Buckle up, everybody, Here we go. The Charlie Kirk Show is proudly sponsored by Preserved Gold, leading gold and silver experts and the only precious metals company. I recommend to my family, friends and viewers. 00:01:09 Speaker 3: Oh hey, Riley, I was going to give you a formal introduction. 00:01:13 Speaker 2: Go back, go back, No you can come in. Is everybody having a good time? Are we excited about Riley Gaines? 00:01:20 Speaker 3: The Riley Gaines, formerly known as an All American swimmer and now known as just an all around amazing person, an amazing American, an advocate for women's rights. 00:01:32 Speaker 2: What aren't you known for now. 00:01:35 Speaker 4: Being a man? 00:01:40 Speaker 3: And she's quick on her feet too, not just in the swimming pool. 00:01:43 Speaker 4: That was like, yeah, well, that's why I went to swimming is because I didn't have to be quick on my feet. You don't have to be very like agile. It's all in the water. The water swimmers were typically not that good at land sports. 00:01:56 Speaker 2: Get like bad balan. 00:01:58 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, So Riley Gaines, you have had a a front row seat to Charlie Kirk to Turning Point for I think like three years now, basically is it three years? Yeah? 00:02:10 Speaker 4: Two and a half yeah, yeah, three yeah, almost yeah, I guess I spoke out in March of twenty twenty two, so gosh, three and a half. Turning Point was very quick to offer me guidance and resources and encouragement in a time where I knew nothing, honestly, nothing about the political sphere, nothing about our government. I'm ashamed to say it, like, never took a government course. I mean, I literally knew we had three branches, and that was the extent of my knowledge. Didn't know what they did. I still don't know what they do. I don't even think they know what they do. 00:02:46 Speaker 2: Half the time was that to say, yeah, that's why they all retire. 00:02:49 Speaker 5: Before face exactly. 00:02:50 Speaker 4: But Turning Point and Charlie specifically was very quick to reach out in a way that was different than other people who were reaching out. And I feel like I have a fairly decent amount of discernment and very self aware. 00:03:03 Speaker 5: And can pick things out. 00:03:05 Speaker 4: In a time where it was, I guess politically expedient the topic of keeping men out of women's sports. 00:03:12 Speaker 5: There were lots of people who. 00:03:14 Speaker 4: You know, claim the slogans of faith, family, and freedom who were quick to reach out. But I could see it as they were using our experience as an opportunity to capitalize, which I even appreciated at the time, because anyone talking about it was a good thing in my eyes. 00:03:27 Speaker 5: But when Charlie and Turning Point reached out, it was different. 00:03:30 Speaker 4: It was in a way and an effort to make sure that I was okay as a human being, because Charlie understood, like I know, it's hard to read these things that are being said online about you. We just want to make sure you're okay. We're here for you, different than anyone. 00:03:43 Speaker 5: Else who had reached out. 00:03:44 Speaker 4: So it was a very quick, I think relationship that had been developed between myself and Turning Point, and one that has really fostered and grown over the past three years. 00:03:56 Speaker 3: Well, you've been an amazing advocate for not only Turning Point, but for not only women's rights, and you know, obviously for protecting women's. 00:04:07 Speaker 2: Sports and all of these things. But you have. 00:04:09 Speaker 3: Become a political powerhouse. You have become somebody that a lot of politicians want to bring to Washington, d c. And testify at their committee hearings or get behind their campaign. And what's fascinating to me is that despite all of these things that you could do with your time, I have seen you more and more and more at college campuses. You had that terrifying experience at San Francisco State University, which was speaking at a Turning Point chapter. You had every excuse to not double and triple down on the campus activism and doing the things that Charlie was doing. I remember you were at you went back to San Francisco State, right, and you did it? 00:04:48 Speaker 2: Prove me wrong with Charlie was last year? Yeah, yeah it was. 00:04:53 Speaker 3: And so you have you have not shied away, you have not shrunk back, you have gone even harder. 00:05:00 Speaker 4: Well, we can't write otherwise. I mean, you think about it. You think about all of the different spheres that the left has acquired and runs, certainly media, mainstream media, these academic institutions, healthcare even which is supposed to be a place that is totally not biased or have anything to do with the polarization and the politicization that we've seen even in healthcare, our government. The list goes on. They've acquired all of these spheres. So of course, anything that I can do, as just say, one person, as a now I don't know if I can call myself a recent graduate. 00:05:39 Speaker 5: I'm getting kind of old, but yeah, I know. 00:05:43 Speaker 4: Me at the ripe age of twenty five, I'm like married with children. 00:05:46 Speaker 5: Now, I'm getting up there. 00:05:48 Speaker 4: But anything that I can do, goodness gracious, I'm willing to do it. 00:05:53 Speaker 5: My husband and I we welcomed our daughter into. 00:05:54 Speaker 4: This world about ten weeks ago, which is super cool. But even in those ten weeks, seeing the necessity and the urgency of getting on campuses, high school campuses, college campuses, and so she went with me to ten different campuses. Even this semester, she's traveled to fifteen states. She's met the President, she's been to the White House, she's been to mar A Lago. She's going to be really dangerous at two truth and a lie one day. So all that to say to speak to the importance, of course of campus activism and reaching the youth, but also to speak to motherhood. 00:06:35 Speaker 5: As well, and how I think. 00:06:38 Speaker 4: The best way to describe our little baby girl, Margo at this point in her life is portable and adaptable. And your life doesn't end when you have children. What I have found to be the case, and certainly what Charlie spoke to, is your life really begins when you have kids, especially. 00:06:56 Speaker 5: A little girl. Gosh, I look at her. 00:06:59 Speaker 4: And it's just the most magical transformative thing I think that as a woman you could possibly go through is being a mom. 00:07:05 Speaker 3: So yeah, and I remember when we had our first our daughter she's seven now, but she we were. 00:07:11 Speaker 2: Like, you know, you're kind of like a accessory. We can just sort of. Yeah, it's like a handbag. We can take you with wherever you want. 00:07:17 Speaker 3: Well, it gets trickier with two, I will say, because then you got to play a little man on man defense. 00:07:21 Speaker 2: The third then it's like zone. 00:07:23 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're out numbered. At that point, you're out numbered. 00:07:25 Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's so true, like you'll figure it out, you know. I've realized, like it's pretty hard to kill them, Like she doesn't want to die, and I don't want her to die. 00:07:34 Speaker 2: Therefore, like I'm not convinced they don't want to die. 00:07:36 Speaker 3: I feel like it's like, you know, like the the you know, let's put our finger in the socket, or let's run downhill when we could barely walk, lots of different things. Yeah, there, we'll get They are pretty resilient creatures. 00:07:50 Speaker 2: Yes they are. 00:07:51 Speaker 5: So she rocks. 00:07:51 Speaker 4: She's here, she's an amphis, so she can now say I don't know, she might be the youngest person at amphis at I know, I know, I've seen a bunch. 00:08:00 Speaker 2: Of little bit I think this is a weird way to say. 00:08:03 Speaker 3: We have a nursing room because they're nursing mothers here, so we want to make sure they have a place too. So but yeah, we encourage families with very pro family, pro family even in the workplace. 00:08:13 Speaker 2: Daisy's about to have a baby, so give it up for Daisy. She's around here somewhere. 00:08:19 Speaker 3: Marina, our CMO is about to have a baby, and I'm terrified of both of them going on maternity, So pray for us. 00:08:27 Speaker 4: Which Turning Point now, I actually spoke to this on stage they and I think this is important in the context of understanding how Yes, of course the values that Charlie and Turning Point stands for are pro life, but so much so that in pro life it is not just the baby in the womb, it's supporting moms before, during, and after pregnancy. And so one of the super awesome things about Turning Point and what they've implemented what Charlie was working on prior to his assassination is murder, but what they've implemented after is a six month maternity leave policy for Turning Point employees if you've been at the company for a certain amount of time, and so you'd be really hard pressed to find that sort of policy anywhere else in any realm, any career. And so again it shows how it's not just words or a slogan like these are things they really mean and they really live by. So I think that's super awesome. 00:09:20 Speaker 3: If you're going to go as hard in the paint as Turning Point and Charlie have about having babies and getting married, you probably should put your money where you're with this. I think that's only fair people to start calling out theological inconsistencies. But no, we are super you know, and it's fun having those conversations with Daisy and Marina. It's like, listen, whatever you've got to do, like that is the most important thing, and keeping the first things the first things. Blake, you know all about this topic. 00:09:42 Speaker 5: Nope, you don't know about being a mom. 00:09:45 Speaker 3: Yes, no maternity leave for you, Blake, that's not how we roll around here. 00:09:49 Speaker 2: That would cause that would raise even more eyebrows. 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So talk about because one of the things, I mean, when Charlie was assassinated, you know, I think Blake and I were so close to it that I mean, it was I saw all this media and I could barely look at it. 00:11:10 Speaker 2: Honestly, I barely opened my phone. 00:11:12 Speaker 3: For the first couple of days, and as a matter of fact, Mike, I got so many phone calls and texts that my phone stopped working and I was kind of huddled in this It felt like a bunker, you know, just trying to do the every fifteen minutes, just get through every fifteen minutes. And you know, you were one of those people that I noticed in the immediate aftermath that you just stepped up and you did more things. It felt like I saw you more vocal, I saw you more. You were defending Charlie, you were advocating on behalf of the organization, on behalf of the country. 00:11:47 Speaker 2: You were speaking out. 00:11:49 Speaker 3: Tell me what it was like for you to be in your position in the media aftermath? 00:11:53 Speaker 6: Was that? 00:11:54 Speaker 2: What was the reaction? And like, where's your headspace? 00:11:57 Speaker 7: Now? 00:11:58 Speaker 4: It's one of those moments where, of course she'll never forget where you were, which, being twenty five, I don't. I don't think I have too many of those in my life. First, when President Trump was shot and now this, I was actually in line at Chick fil A. I was in the Chick fil A line, don't tell Alex Clark, and I was inside the building and I was waiting in line, and actually it was I was getting a call from my boss at Fox, and I didn't think anything of it. I was out doing stuff about to order. Didn't answer my phone. I get another call, he called right back. Still didn't answer, and I get a text and it said. 00:12:30 Speaker 5: Hey, are you okay? Are you in Utah? 00:12:32 Speaker 4: And I knew, of course about Charlie's campus stops, and I did falling online very excited. Bear in mind, at this point I was thirty eight weeks pregnant or so right, and so, you know, by all means and the chaotic and unconventional schedule and career, I guess that I have like maternity le whatever that means. Anyways, in line. 00:12:54 Speaker 5: Are you okay? Or are you in Utah? 00:12:57 Speaker 4: Didn't cross my mind. And so at this point I call him back. I'm like, hey, what's up. He's like, I'm so sorry. And at this point I had no idea what he was talking about. 00:13:05 Speaker 5: I'm like, what's going on? 00:13:07 Speaker 4: He says, Charlie's been shot and it doesn't look good. And it was at that point, you know, even still saying that. 00:13:11 Speaker 5: Out loud, it gives you just chills over your body. 00:13:14 Speaker 4: It was at that point I went to X and I opened X, which I wish desperately I never did, because you're immediately met with a video and I had convinced myself that it was AI. Honestly, I'm like, oh, that's not real, Like that can't be real. 00:13:32 Speaker 5: I turn off my phone. I was in the the you know. 00:13:36 Speaker 4: A few hours following that, you hear the news that his life was prematurely ended by a coward. Initially, it's total shock, right, and just disbelief, disbelief that something like that could happen, that he's really gone, disbelief that in the immediate you're seeing people online who are celebrating, Like total disbelief. And then that night you go to bed and you really can't go to bed, and you just think of Erica, and you're thinking of his children, You're thinking of the future of the company. There are so many questions, how, you know, what does this mean for the nation? He was such a profound and important and influential, the most effective of voices for our time, and he's gone, What does this mean? And so it was kind of like eight hours of like you're in and out of sleep, you're kind of like in this constant state of prayer. 00:14:27 Speaker 5: It was really weird. 00:14:29 Speaker 4: And then it turns to grief and tearfulness then the next few days, and then it turns to anger. Honestly and rage again. When you see the things that were being said online by peers, even knowing what they thought about Charlie and his assassination, it makes you think, well, gosh, what would they say if I was assassinated. These are people who I know in my life, and they're celebrating this. Healthcare workers, government employees, school teachers, the people who are trusted to educate your children, celebrating this, who you trust to save your life if you were in a you know, a dire medical situation. They're celebrating death. But I will say I went to the memorial service, which was on my due date, So you can imagine my obgy n when I tell him, hey, I've got to get on a plane. Actually, at forty weeks pregnant, he honestly totally understood. He's like, look, Riley, this is like it's our nation's lost. I'm going to print out your paperwork for you. God forbid you give birth in Arizona. 00:15:35 Speaker 5: Here's your papers. 00:15:36 Speaker 4: Go to a hospital, don't know what to do if you give birth on the plane, tell your husband to watch YouTube videos before you take off. I still remember being angry though, honestly, walking into the memorial service, but watching as Erica well first, it was so cool to see so many publicly elected officials proclaim the name of the Lord in front of I mean tens of thousands who were there, but million who. 00:16:00 Speaker 5: Were watching online. That was amazing. 00:16:02 Speaker 4: But to see Erica and what you have to imagine is the hardest moment of her life forgive her husband's assassin eleven days. 00:16:11 Speaker 5: I think it was after he was murdered. 00:16:13 Speaker 4: Like what a beautiful display of forgiveness, of strength, of compassion that I think only God can provide a grieving widow so soon after her husband had been killed, And so that was kind of like a pivotal point where it wasn't really anger anymore. Of course, there's still the level of disbelief in grief, of course, but it was feelings of hope and optimism and inspiration for the future. And that's where I'm at now. Of course, being here at amfesting so many people, young people especially in the audience, smiling ear to ear, We just did the student meet and greet and they estimated there were two thousand kids lined up to say hi to me, which is like the craziest thing ever. I've literally only said there are two sexes, Like, I don't know, I'm really not that cool. 00:17:02 Speaker 2: Did you do that when you were in third grade? They're like, what do you want to be when you grow up? 00:17:06 Speaker 3: I want to be famous for saying there are boys and girls. 00:17:09 Speaker 2: That's actually cute. 00:17:11 Speaker 5: Riley did that in kindergarten. So yeah, third grade was way too late. 00:17:16 Speaker 2: Then you had your baby. 00:17:17 Speaker 5: Then we had the. 00:17:17 Speaker 4: Baby, which that whole process was and is still just the coolest, most fulfilling, purposeful, satisfactory thing I will say I honestly. Of course, one of Charlie's messages that he gave on campuses and beyond was to have kids, get married, have kids as young as you possibly can in your married life, and as many as you possibly can. 00:17:49 Speaker 5: I was scared to get pregnant. 00:17:52 Speaker 4: I think a lot of women really are, because you hear all these awful horror stories of pregnancy and the delivery, and then you'll be sleep deprived for the rest of your life to infinity. 00:18:01 Speaker 5: Once you have a newborn. 00:18:03 Speaker 4: I'm here to say none of those things happened to me, none of them. I had the best pregnancy ever, no warning sickness, no tire, no fatigue, no aversions, no nothing. I literally lived my life as I did prior to conception. The labor and delivery process a breeze. She was here in like ten minutes, easy peasy. And now I know there's like so many moms who are like shut out, I hate you, but I think it's important do. 00:18:29 Speaker 2: You have a security barrier right here? Because I'm about to get the stage rushed. 00:18:32 Speaker 4: I think, honestly it's important for women to hear that there are good stories too, totally, and we live in this and that's not to discount the the things that can potentially happen and do happen to women. I'm not here to discount that, but I am here to say my experience was not like that at all. And my baby, I think we just gave birth to a perfect little human. She has slept fully through the night since day one. Never one time I know I did a like knock on wood, like seriously, security right now, everyone says just wait until the second which I'm a second child, so if you know, karma is real, it's coming after me hard. Yeah, but it's been a dream. 00:19:10 Speaker 2: Honestly, I totally agree with what you're saying that. 00:19:13 Speaker 3: I definitely had so many people warn me and they're like, oh, you know, and they were just by the way, they would do this with marriage too. By the way, did you notice this, Like just I gotta tell the wife what you know they would There's like, culturally we've built into the vernacular just a constant degradation of the institution of marriage. We just you know what I mean, It's like we just downgrade it, we downplay it, we mock it, we laugh about it, and like, Okay, some of that's fine. Sure, But that's why it's so important to have strong voices like Charlie, like you hopefully like this show that say these are the these are the best things, These are the best things in life. And I can tell you, I mean, after Charlie was assassinated, I didn't see my family for you know, weeks on end because I was traveling around. I was, you know, they were living in a different place. I had to worry about security. And when I finally finally got to just like see them, like and have my three little ones tackle me, literally tackle me, and just they had no idea what I had been through, They had no idea what we had been through, and just tackled me. 00:20:14 Speaker 2: Smiling tears. 00:20:15 Speaker 3: They start crying because they missed me and I miss them. There's like, why would you downplay how wonderful that is? Why would you try and warn people against that experience? And we do need to do a better job just as a culture, and I think that is changing about Hey, have kids, have them as young as you can. I mean, I'll never forget the interview with Tucker that's gone viral like forty eight times with Charlie because you know, take a job you can't you're not qualified for. You know, have more kids and you can afford live boldly, don't waste time. And I think just that message is powerfully transformative to our culture. And now you can actually be a living embodiment of that because you know twenty five. I mean I was living in la at the time, and I don't think any of my friends had kids at twenty five. And I think gets really it's really important to get started younger than you think, because you'll wake up and you'll blink and you'll be thirty and you'll have no children, and then all of a sudden, you know you're not married. Did you ever hear anything like that from people who even would say, oh, you should wait to have kids because it'll mess with your incipient media career, or any one. 00:21:18 Speaker 4: Hundred percent, or people who just say even friends in my life, friends who I love very dearly, who would classify themselves as conservative, even who say that, you know, well, we just need to find the right time. Let me tell you, there is no like right time to have kids. You'll never reach that, never that point. No, no, you'll never reach that point. 00:21:39 Speaker 2: There isn't a right time. 00:21:40 Speaker 4: There's a limited time exactly precisely. But yes, you do have people who who tell you those things, which my husband and I we were married for. We got married in twenty twenty two, which is even that in and of itself, Like you don't hear people who are engaged at twenty one years old anymore. We're engaged it and married at twenty one, waited a few years to start, you know, trying to have kids, and and maybe this is TMI, but I had delivered the baby. My legs are still in the syrup. I'm like, okay, I'm ready for another one. And my doctor's like, Riley, I've never heard someone in the state that you're currently in say that. 00:22:18 Speaker 2: So I'm like, no, I'm we'll sit in so Irish twins. 00:22:22 Speaker 5: Yeah. 00:22:23 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. 00:22:24 Speaker 4: The last appointment though, he was because you know, you go back for follow ups and they're you know, just making sure you're good, and he says, Riley, like, you really should wait his timeline. 00:22:31 Speaker 5: He said, you need to wait until April. I said, we'll see about that. 00:22:34 Speaker 4: I've never been very great at following directions. 00:22:37 Speaker 2: So you're good for You're good at one thing speed. 00:22:39 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, unless it's against a man. 00:22:43 Speaker 3: Oh oh, there's there's submit appropriate jokes in there somewhere, but we're gonna skip them. I don't want to have to fire myself today. 00:22:55 Speaker 8: This is Lane Schoenberger, chief investment Officer and founding partner of y REFI. It has been an honor and a privilege to partner with Turning Point and for Charlie to endorse us. His endorsement means the world to us, and we look forward to continuing our partnership with Turning Point for years to come. 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That is y r e f y dot com a student loan debt relief whyrefi dot. 00:24:01 Speaker 4: Com interview coming up. 00:24:08 Speaker 2: Emma should be out there. 00:24:10 Speaker 3: We've got a first question over here Emma. 00:24:13 Speaker 7: Okay, Hi, I have a question for Riley, which, by the way, I'm a huge fan, and I know you say you shouldn't be famous for just saying they're two genders, but I think that's really important this day and age, especially for young women as myself, and I will want to ask you as a Christian woman. I've heard a lot of different opinions on this from my peers and from older women, and I know this is a little bit of a personal question, and I apologize for that right off the bat, But what is your opinion on birth control? Because I know that that's quite controversial, especially in the groups that I circulate in, and I know that there's a lot of different types for women, and I just don't know what to think or who to believe. So I wanted to ask your opinion on that. 00:24:54 Speaker 4: You can approach this conversation in two ways, and I'll answer in two ways. 00:24:57 Speaker 5: Number One, in the position of being. 00:24:59 Speaker 4: Pro life, how do I feel about birth control? I actually, I'll be totally transparent here. I was on birth control in college, not for anything other than the fact that when you're competing at the level of which I was competing at, it was really just to regulate your menstrual cycle when you have big competitions and you can have some sort of hand in controlling that, like to be totally transparent. I regretted it though after the fact, more so because of how it affects your hormones. 00:25:34 Speaker 5: Someone who speaks really well to. 00:25:35 Speaker 4: This, of course, is Alex Clark and the effects of the birth control pill on your hormonal cycle. And so I wouldn't do it again obviously. Now I'm in a marriage and would have no problem having more kids, so on that front. But I have a lot of friends who feel the exact same way. And I will say I think it's super duper cool now that we have a whole generation of people like our generation, who are willing to question these things. 00:26:05 Speaker 5: Right, I would imagine. 00:26:06 Speaker 4: Some of you, you know, moms who are out there, maybe grandmoms who are out there. Maybe you were on birth control and you didn't think anything of it because your healthcare providers. So, oh, if you don't want to have kids, to take this and you didn't question it because you trust that your health care provider has your best interest at heart. Right, we are seeing a whole new generation of people who are willing to push back and question things. And I saw that when we were talking about vaccines for our daughter. Super cool to see some of the stuff come out of HHS surrounding the head B vaccine and the correlation between children and infants, newborns who receive that and different allergies or allergens that they have. We're seeing a whole new generation of kids. 00:26:47 Speaker 5: Really, at least I feel like a kid. Maybe I'm not a kid anymore. 00:26:50 Speaker 4: I feel like a kid who are willing to question things like birth control, and I think. 00:26:55 Speaker 5: It's super duper cool. 00:26:58 Speaker 3: I also just want to say, I think it's weird that, you know, women, young girls as young as like thirteen get just automatically prescribe birth control to help with like cramps or. 00:27:07 Speaker 5: Something, and they do. 00:27:08 Speaker 2: It's weird actually if you if it's been normal for a long time, but then when you take a step back and you're like, wait, why do we do this for little young girls, Like that's weird. 00:27:18 Speaker 3: I think it's culturally weird and we need to call it out. It doesn't mean that I mean, I'm not going to give you the opinions that Riley or right. Yeah, I get to tell you from a common sense perspective, it seems very weird. 00:27:32 Speaker 2: Okay, where do you want to go next, Blake? Oh, there we go. 00:27:38 Speaker 5: All right, we're on the side you want. 00:27:41 Speaker 6: Uh So, I was wondering, as I was a college athlete, I know your athletic career. I feel like the world is very big around trying to make your schedule as busy as possible, and I think that poses as a big threat to our faith and also to developing families. I was wondering how you like just manage that when we're done with your sport, and what that transition is like for you. 00:28:03 Speaker 4: Well, of course, I mean faith is central to my life. I think there's opportunities in every sphere to highlight your faith and to live by your faith. And so while we have these demanding, crazy schedules, if you make living a christ like life the priority, it's actually kind of cool to have a crazy schedule and do that. I've been so inspired recently. We talked about this cultural revival that's happening, that has been happening, I think intensified in the last three months following Charlie's assassination. But even on the football field, you know, of course, with college football playoffs and different things to see, so many players proclaim the name of the Lord like it's the coolest thing ever. So I think in every sphere and sector of life, there's an opportunity to speak to God's goodness, to his grace, to how he sent his son to live on this earth, who died on the cross for our sins, who rose again three days later with the hope and the promise of eternal life. That's a really cool thing. And if you can can have the opportunity to say that on every stage, there's lots of people who can have their hearts and minds changed and brought to the Lord. But in my personal life now, it's been cool. I think, especially being married young, because being tested in the way that I feel like I've personally been tested in it gives you the opportunity to grow spiritually individually, but also being married, it gives you the opportunity to grow in your faith together, and so that's been the biggest blessing, as well as kind of having an accountability partner in your spouse. 00:29:46 Speaker 5: So that's kind of my take. There is faith first and. 00:29:49 Speaker 4: Foremost, which Charlie said this one of the things he would say, is God family country in that order? 00:29:56 Speaker 5: And I think that's a fantastic mantra to live by. 00:29:58 Speaker 3: Well, and you know Charlie's book that just came out stopping the name of God. You know, take a sabbath, take a rest and it's not a it's not a it's not a negative thing. 00:30:10 Speaker 2: It's a blessing. It's a it's. 00:30:12 Speaker 3: A you know, cease, cease your action so you can focus on your face, so you can reflect on what God is doing in your life and doing in your heart. 00:30:19 Speaker 2: So definitely take make it a discipline, like Charlie, if you get if you find yourself so busy that you're spending out of control and losing kind of your grounding especially, it's a gift to you. It's designed to be a gift to you. I think we have time for one more. 00:30:34 Speaker 9: Hi, Riley, I'm Stacy from Alabama. I want to say thank you because you encouraged me because I was actually supposed to go against someone who said they were a female but they weren't in a jiu jitsu competition and you actually gave me the courage to stand up and I did. 00:30:47 Speaker 5: Not have to do that. 00:30:48 Speaker 2: So thank you. 00:30:48 Speaker 5: Very much as you ye jiu jitsure. 00:30:53 Speaker 9: My second question as a mom of four is how do we keep the momentum going for our children to not have to deal with this ifocrat scale elected again, God forbid, but just to keep them in it some going. 00:31:03 Speaker 4: Well, First of all, I hate that the onus is placed on you to have to make that decision where ultimately you've you're in like this impossible spot where what do you do? Like do you not do the sport that you love or do you compromise on what you know to be true and right and fair and just? 00:31:21 Speaker 5: And so I applaud you. We've dubbed that a turning point. 00:31:25 Speaker 4: One of the initiatives that that we've been working on is called Project Boycott, with emphasis on the word boy and really encouraging those girls in whether it's team sports, whether it's something as like physical as jiu jitsu. Gosh, like I can't imagine grappling. Is that the verb that you would use grappling on a mat with like yeah, with a man that's insane and anyone with eyeballs in a shred of honesty and integrity or common sense would be able to see. 00:31:55 Speaker 5: It that way. 00:31:56 Speaker 4: But technically, okay, what how do we keep the momentum if if Democrats get back in charge. First and foremost understand it starts in your house, not the White House. There is so much performance and theatrics in Washington, DC and praises God that we have Donald Trump in the Oval office and we have a Republican majority in both the House and the Senate. Those are great things, but let's be real in terms of longevity, the things that they're accomplishing or not really accomplishing. You have far more influence on your children and how they live their life as parents than who is in the Oval office, who is the president of the United States. So with that responsibility really an obligation, I believe, as parents number one, lead by example, but to be willing to defend your kids against any harm, any threat, any risk that could possibly present itself. I have so many parents who reach out to me on a daily basis, who say, you know this is happening in my daughter's school. Can you talk about it? I can't because I'll lose my job, and of course write anything I can do, I'm willing to do it because this is my passion, it's what I care. So deeply about But do I have to care more about your kids. 00:33:07 Speaker 3: Than you do? 00:33:08 Speaker 4: You know, be willing to take that risk. I saw a video yesterday of this little girl. 00:33:14 Speaker 5: I don't know how old she was or where even in the world she. 00:33:17 Speaker 4: Was, but we've seen so many of these videos of girls at school board meetings, right, and they're standing and there's a podium. This I posted on my ex account. This girl. She was so short she couldn't even see above the podium. I think she's eight years old. I don't know how many people failed that little she was there to speak about she didn't want boys in her bathroom. Think of how many people failed that little girl to be there saying those words, defending herself in that way. She's so short she couldn't even see over the podium. That's not Joe Biden's fault. I mean, I guess you could point a finger at Joe Biden. Yeah, autopen the Democratic Party. You could point a finger at the principle, But I think at that point there's a finger to be pointed back at parents as well. Defend your kids against any harm, any threat, any risk that presents itself. 00:34:06 Speaker 2: You've got to go. Yeah, it's always something all right. 00:34:09 Speaker 3: The Great Riley Gaines everybody, and thank you everyone who is here throughout the day. 00:34:15 Speaker 2: Thank you, guys, we appreciate all of you. 00:34:23 Speaker 8: For more on many of these stories and news you can trust, go to Charliekirk dot com