Good Friday invites us to witness Christ's profound love and sacrifice, urging us to ponder our role in this redemptive narrative. It calls us to seize the hope and transformation found only in Jesus’s death and Resurrection, motivating us to live lives that reflect Christ's calling.
Join Jonathan Youssef for a thoughtful reflection on the events of Good Friday. We'll explore the depth of Jesus's suffering and its crucial role in delivering salvation and hope to the world. We’ll also explore the critical moments at Golgotha, including Jesus’s crucifixion, the division of his garments, and the powerful expressions of love and sacrifice from that day.
By the end of this episode, you’ll gain insights into the significance of Good Friday in the foundation of Christianity, emphasizing the salvation plan and the transformative impact of Jesus’s ultimate sacrifice.
Stand alongside Jonathan at the base of the cross where Christ was crucified and contemplate the magnitude of God’s love for humanity during this Holy Week.
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[00:00:00] The God of Heaven, high and lifted up the holy, blameless, pure, true, all knowing, all
[00:00:12] powerful, loving, gracious, just God in the second person of the Trinity taken on
[00:00:18] human flesh and is now carrying a wooden cross to his execution at the very hands of
[00:00:24] his own creation.
[00:00:31] Hello and welcome to Candid, where we never settle for less than the truth.
[00:00:36] I'm your host Jonathan Youssef.
[00:00:38] Each week we'll tackle tough issues, answer your hard questions and take a candid look at
[00:00:44] the Christian faith.
[00:00:48] Bearing his own cross, he went to the place of the skull which in Aramaic is called Golgotha.
[00:00:55] There they crucified him and with him two others, one on each side in Jesus in the middle.
[00:01:03] Pilot had a notice prepared and fastened to the cross.
[00:01:07] It read, Jesus of Nazareth, the King of the Jews.
[00:01:13] Many of the Jews read this sign for the place where Jesus was crucified was near the city
[00:01:18] and the sign was written in Aramaic, Latin, and Greek.
[00:01:24] The chief priest of the Jews protested to Pilate.
[00:01:28] Do not write the King of the Jews but that this man claimed to be King of the Jews.
[00:01:36] Pilot answered, What I have written, I have written.
[00:01:41] In the soldiers crucified Jesus they took his clothes, dividing them into four shares,
[00:01:46] one for each of them with the undergarment remaining.
[00:01:50] This garment was seamless woven in one piece from top to bottom.
[00:01:55] Let us not tear it, they said to one another.
[00:01:58] Let's decide by lot who will get it.
[00:02:01] This happened that the scripture might be fulfilled that said they divided my clothes among
[00:02:07] them and cast lots for my garment.
[00:02:11] So this is what the soldiers did.
[00:02:14] Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother, his mother's sister Mary, the wife of Kloepus
[00:02:21] and Mary Magdalene.
[00:02:23] When Jesus saw his mother there in the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her,
[00:02:29] Woman, here is your son.
[00:02:33] And to the disciple, here is your mother.
[00:02:36] From that time on this disciple took her into his home.
[00:02:42] The scenes we are about to look at are the most important in human history.
[00:02:47] I was a history major in college which in Latin means one who never finds a job after graduation.
[00:02:55] Thankfully the Lord in His mercy gave me a shove in the direction of studying his word,
[00:03:01] but in all my study of history nothing compares to this.
[00:03:06] The very reason Christianity exists is found in John 19 and the account of what we now call
[00:03:14] Good Friday.
[00:03:16] I hope with this reflection is to show you the work of Christ, the eternal plan of the
[00:03:21] Godhead that was made before the foundations of the earth.
[00:03:26] Good Friday is a day we celebrate because of what it accomplished.
[00:03:30] We celebrate this day because justification and righteousness are now hours because of
[00:03:36] the work of the eternal Son of God, the Son of glory on this day.
[00:03:42] Good Friday reminds us that our salvation cost Jesus his life.
[00:03:48] We died the death that we all deserved so that we can live the life that he's called us to.
[00:03:55] On Good Friday we reflect on and revisit these hours on the cross.
[00:04:01] We stand gazing at the cross of Christ, like the old spiritual song we ask ourselves,
[00:04:08] were you there?
[00:04:10] Of course, we are separated by time and geography from this event.
[00:04:15] We stand with the witnesses of what took place as we become part of the great body of
[00:04:22] believers who come trembling to the cross.
[00:04:26] Crows of Jerusalem were crying out two separate cries just days before.
[00:04:31] The first was Hosanna save now and the second was crucify him in justice is happening.
[00:04:41] Every rule of law regarding a proper hearing was ignored as Jesus passed between the
[00:04:47] Jewish high council and the Roman authorities.
[00:04:50] Jesus was betrayed by one of his own for the price of a slave, one of his closest disciples
[00:04:57] betrayed him who swore he would never leave him.
[00:05:01] The disciples left him leaving mostly women behind his witnesses.
[00:05:06] Here we are at the pivotal climactic moment in redemptive history and we learn four key
[00:05:11] things in these passages describing this moment.
[00:05:17] Notice our scene from one perspective you could say that the events of verses 17 and 18 were
[00:05:24] just a normal routine based on how the soldiers seemingly act without any emotion.
[00:05:29] It's not because they don't have feelings or it's not a gruesome event, it's just that
[00:05:35] they had been here so many times before.
[00:05:38] To them this is just another state execution, just another criminal, just another punishment
[00:05:44] but also in these verses is a reality of eternal significance.
[00:05:51] The words of John the baptizer behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the
[00:05:56] world, remind us that here in the everyday events of Roman occupation and control was
[00:06:03] the pivotal event in human history, not a pivotal event but the pivotal event.
[00:06:11] And so while men and women of that day are just business as usual, a life went through
[00:06:17] its normal routine heaven looked down onto a scene on which mankind's entire destiny
[00:06:24] hinged.
[00:06:26] What we find is what was described later by Peter in his letter which says Christ was
[00:06:32] a lamb without blemish or defect.
[00:06:34] He was chosen before the foundation of the world but was revealed in these last times for
[00:06:40] your sakes.
[00:06:42] Now, of course it is possible to pay lip service to this at Easter time to go through
[00:06:47] the routine.
[00:06:49] People can even be okay with the different aspects of an Easter Sunday service and still
[00:06:54] miss the relevance of the scene because it is this same one who stumbles under the weight
[00:07:02] of a cross in verse 17 is the same one who is nailed between two criminals is the same
[00:07:08] one who cries out, Father, forgive them for they know not what they do is the same one
[00:07:13] who in his humanity calls down.
[00:07:15] I thirst this is the one who endures this agony is not just a man but he is God incarnate
[00:07:24] he is God in human flesh and God staggers under the weight of a wooden instrument of death.
[00:07:35] This is where we find the relevance of the scene many of us are so familiar with this
[00:07:42] story, so familiar with these passages that it has lost its power and we need the reminder
[00:07:48] today and every day of the reality of what is taking place here in these verses.
[00:07:56] The God of heaven high and lifted up the holy, blameless, pure, true, all knowing, all
[00:08:03] powerful, loving, gracious, just God in the second person of the Trinity taken on human
[00:08:10] flesh and is now carrying a wooden cross to his execution at the very hands of his own
[00:08:16] creation.
[00:08:18] Beloved, were you there?
[00:08:21] Were you there when they crucified my Lord?
[00:08:26] It is understandable that we spend a lot of time examining the gruesomeness of the cross
[00:08:30] but the gospel writers don't spend a lot of time on it.
[00:08:34] John deals with the crucifixion in four words here they crucified him.
[00:08:40] When you look at the other gospels, Matthew, Mark and Luke, it's almost the same however
[00:08:46] there is a time and a place for thinking about the nature of Christ's suffering on Good
[00:08:51] Friday.
[00:08:53] In those moments when you think no one understands my pain, no one understands how lonely I feel.
[00:09:00] Good Friday offers a clear response to your suffering.
[00:09:05] You are not alone.
[00:09:08] There is one who knows.
[00:09:11] For in his suffering he entered the depths of all suffering for all mankind.
[00:09:19] Our response to this powerful truth can be emotional or sentimental.
[00:09:24] There's nothing wrong with that but God hopes that these events will not just incite
[00:09:30] an emotional reaction but will lead us to be radically changed and spiritually transformed
[00:09:37] daily we are engaged in spiritual warfare and we are either feeding the sinful nature
[00:09:44] or we are feeding the spirit for our battle is not against flesh and blood.
[00:09:50] Something that the enemy would love for us to believe but our battle is against the spiritual
[00:09:55] forces of evil in the heavenly places.
[00:09:59] Either we put on the full armor of God which is to put on Christ himself or we wage war
[00:10:05] with a water pistol in our own strength.
[00:10:10] So we come again and again to what Christ has done for us, understanding that it is not
[00:10:15] a call fueled by emotion.
[00:10:18] Instead it is a call that requires that we live our lives with our eyes always set on Christ.
[00:10:27] Beloved were you there when they crucified my Lord.
[00:10:31] We move from our scene to a sign in verses 19 through 22.
[00:10:38] In crucifixion the crimes of the criminal committed were written out on a board.
[00:10:42] It's also customary for that criminal to be marched the longest route to the place of
[00:10:47] crucifixion to parade them through the streets on their way to their death.
[00:10:52] Now this was done as a sort of final humiliation it was also to send a message to would be criminals
[00:10:58] that this is the punishment for a capital offense.
[00:11:02] But there's another reason it was to give individuals an opportunity to step forward and
[00:11:06] say that the person who is being paraded around is not guilty of the crime that's posted
[00:11:11] on their sign.
[00:11:12] It's sort of an appeal process even at that point they would retry the hearing on the
[00:11:18] spot and sometimes people never even made it to the scene of the crucifixion because
[00:11:21] their appeal was made.
[00:11:24] Now within this framework pilot takes this sign and posts it on the cross of Christ which
[00:11:29] reads verse 19, Jesus of Nazareth the king of the Jews.
[00:11:36] Pilot is just following his own theme here in verse 14 he says he said to the Jews here
[00:11:42] is your king and they replied crucify him in verse 15 again he says shall I crucify
[00:11:49] your king and they respond we have no king but Caesar.
[00:11:54] So pilot says I'm going to show them they do have a king if he's going to go on this
[00:11:59] cross I will give him his title and so he does.
[00:12:03] Jesus of Nazareth king of the Jews.
[00:12:06] The title is significant because Jesus must be crucified as the king of the Jews to become
[00:12:11] king of a far greater kingdom that recognizes no racial or national distinctions.
[00:12:19] Listen to how it's written about Christ in Revelation.
[00:12:22] You are worthy to take the scroll and open the seals because you were slain and with your
[00:12:28] blood you purchased men for God from every tribe and language and people and nation.
[00:12:36] So the death of Christ is a graphic display of his kingship true that he was king of the
[00:12:42] Jews but denied by them crucified by them and it was in this way that he would become king
[00:12:49] of an even greater kingdom and even bigger kingdom.
[00:12:54] Interestingly John points out that it's written in Aramaic which is the language of the
[00:12:58] Jews.
[00:12:59] It's also written in Latin which was the official language of government and it's written
[00:13:05] in Greek which was the language of commerce and culture.
[00:13:08] It's the language of the Roman citizens so that the whole world would be able to read
[00:13:14] this description.
[00:13:17] Jesus is an international savior.
[00:13:20] Jesus is a cosmic Christ.
[00:13:24] Jesus Christ is king over the whole earth.
[00:13:28] This is not news only for the Western world, this is not news only for the Eastern world.
[00:13:33] Other religious leaders have come and gone and those religious groups have primarily
[00:13:37] stayed within their own people groups and within their own sects.
[00:13:43] But of Jesus Christ his kingdom shall have no end and on the day he gathers his own there
[00:13:51] will be people from every people group language and nation as it says in his word.
[00:13:58] The sign is not only significant for its title but also because of the reaction that
[00:14:03] it brought.
[00:14:05] Look at the reaction of the chief priests in verse 21.
[00:14:08] The chief priests and the Jews protested to Pilate, do not write the king of the Jews but
[00:14:13] that this man claimed to be king of the Jews.
[00:14:16] Now why didn't they want that written out?
[00:14:19] It would make them look bad and they didn't want to look bad.
[00:14:22] What would the world think if the leaders of the Jews had killed the king of the Jews?
[00:14:27] The curse of the one who's hanging there was brought about by their actions.
[00:14:33] That says what I have written, I have written.
[00:14:38] But that's not the end of it.
[00:14:40] There's an added dimension that his kingship is not limited to one people group as we've
[00:14:44] already said but that kingship is universal.
[00:14:49] Pilate included in verse 10 when Jesus refuses to answer Pilate.
[00:14:54] Pilate says do you not know that I have authority to release you and the authority to crucify
[00:14:59] you?
[00:15:01] Jesus answers him.
[00:15:03] You would have no authority over me at all unless it had been given to you from above.
[00:15:11] All authority belongs to him.
[00:15:13] Nothing happens outside of his control and that includes his own death.
[00:15:18] This whole scene would be backward to just a casual reader.
[00:15:22] Wouldn't the God of the universe just seize control?
[00:15:26] Why would God die?
[00:15:28] This seems so upside down because people generally cast their vision, their view of God after
[00:15:34] themselves.
[00:15:35] And that's what they would do for themselves.
[00:15:40] Instead we have the God of the universe, the Lord of all creation, the global king doing
[00:15:44] something almost no one expected.
[00:15:48] Beloved were you there?
[00:15:50] Were you there when they crucified my Lord?
[00:15:55] The scene, the sign, third we look at this picture of the soldiers.
[00:16:01] A friend was visiting an old church in the overhired and older lady admiring the beautifully
[00:16:07] stained glassed windows.
[00:16:10] She kept looking at the depiction of Jesus on the cross and she commented how shameful
[00:16:14] it was that they depicted him so scantily clothed.
[00:16:18] She thought that this was improper.
[00:16:21] Well the cross isn't often a way that people are honored.
[00:16:25] Even this depiction is inaccurate.
[00:16:28] Criminals were crucified naked as a way of humiliating the person.
[00:16:32] When armies would conquer they would take the captives that were defeated and they would
[00:16:36] force them to march down their streets naked.
[00:16:39] It was thought to be the highest form of humiliation.
[00:16:44] So was Christ humiliated on that cross in nakedness.
[00:16:50] Verses 23 and 24.
[00:16:53] When the soldiers crucified Jesus they took his clothes, dividing them into four shares,
[00:16:58] one for each of them with the undergarment remaining.
[00:17:02] This garment was seamless woven into one piece from top to bottom.
[00:17:06] Let's not tear it.
[00:17:07] They said to one another.
[00:17:09] Let's decide by lot who gets it.
[00:17:12] And then John adds, this happened that the scripture might be fulfilled which says they
[00:17:17] divided my garments among them and cast lots for my clothing.
[00:17:23] What's happening here?
[00:17:24] I read this and asked myself why put this in here.
[00:17:28] I think John puts this here to show us that as horrible as this scene is, the nakedness,
[00:17:34] the torture of the Savior, God is not sitting in heaven at the end of his seat hoping dearly
[00:17:40] that everything turns out okay.
[00:17:43] I think John is showing us that this has been the plan of salvation from the beginning,
[00:17:49] that this most important time in history, the death and ultimately the resurrection of
[00:17:54] the Savior wasn't a fluke or an accident.
[00:17:57] It wasn't on imprecise timing.
[00:18:00] It wasn't a fortuitous event.
[00:18:02] It was all brought about by the hand of sovereign grace while our depiction here of Jesus
[00:18:09] is frail and weak in his humanity.
[00:18:13] We also have a picture of a steadfast and in control father, a loving servant son who
[00:18:19] is willing and able to secure salvation of his people for his father.
[00:18:27] Beloved were you there when they crucified my Lord.
[00:18:31] Let me get another glimpse of the sun.
[00:18:34] Our final point is we look over these events of the crucifixion.
[00:18:40] Our final point is the Savior.
[00:18:43] John is a master of contrast in his gospel.
[00:18:46] He's just given us these four soldiers who are gambling over Jesus' clothing and then
[00:18:51] immediately we meet these four women who are standing and staying by Jesus' side.
[00:18:59] Now we have no other record of Mary, the wife of Kloepus though she could be the wife
[00:19:04] of Kliopus.
[00:19:05] If you remember from the road to Emmaus in Luke chapter 24, we're not sure.
[00:19:11] But look at the other three women whose lives had been deeply impacted and transformed by
[00:19:17] Jesus.
[00:19:19] First his mother's sister, her name is Salome.
[00:19:23] She is the mother of James and John, the sons of Thunder who wanted to be like Elijah
[00:19:28] and call down fire when they met some opposition in Samaria.
[00:19:32] And here is a lady whose life had been radically transformed totally turned upside down by Jesus.
[00:19:40] Her sons just got up and left the family fishing business to become fishermen of men.
[00:19:47] That would have been an interesting conversation with mom and dad.
[00:19:51] Later she's the one who requests that her two sons sit on Jesus' left and right which
[00:19:57] Jesus rebukes her saying that she doesn't know what she's asking.
[00:20:01] Can they drink the cup that I am about to drink?
[00:20:04] The cup of God's wrath?
[00:20:06] Can they drink it?
[00:20:08] And they say, yeah!
[00:20:10] Then he says they will drink of my cup but that will be a different cup.
[00:20:16] That will be the cup of fellowship with Christ instituted in the Lord's Supper.
[00:20:21] And while drinking that cup of fellowship, suffering will be associated with being tied
[00:20:27] to Christ.
[00:20:29] And yet through all of these changes and challenges she is there standing at the cross.
[00:20:37] She stands next to another woman, Mary Magdalene whose life has also been transformed by Jesus,
[00:20:45] a woman who had seven demons.
[00:20:48] Do you think you would forget what it was like to be possessed by seven demons?
[00:20:54] Your life is a rack, chaos, no settling, no rest, no break and then suddenly Jesus comes.
[00:21:00] And he casts out the demons and he gives you peace, calm, joy and hope.
[00:21:08] She knew this was not just some ordinary man.
[00:21:12] She has experienced true freedom like all of us who have experienced the forgiveness and
[00:21:18] joy that Christ gives us.
[00:21:21] And here she is, watching her Savior at the cross.
[00:21:26] The last woman is his mother, the woman who gave birth to him, the woman who raised him,
[00:21:32] the woman who was told by Simeon when he was a baby that a sword would pierce her soul
[00:21:38] to.
[00:21:40] He stands at the cross, watching all of this unfold not as anticipated.
[00:21:47] And through all this agony and pain Jesus looks down and says, woman, here is your son.
[00:21:55] And to John who was also there, here is your mother even though John's birth mother
[00:22:01] is also standing right there.
[00:22:04] He says you, John, take care of Mary.
[00:22:09] Take sure of the church family unit we become that we look after and care for one another
[00:22:14] even outside of blood family relationships, of birth relationships.
[00:22:20] But here's Jesus dying on the cross, mediating the new covenant for mankind and he is still
[00:22:29] fulfilling his duty as a son obeying the law to the fullest.
[00:22:34] He's not breaking the fifth commandment, he's honoring his mother and father but he's
[00:22:40] also thinking of the welfare of others.
[00:22:43] He's not even thinking of himself on the cross.
[00:22:47] Even in these dying moments, he doesn't take the wine mixed with myrrh that was offered
[00:22:53] to him according to Mark's account which would have killed some of the pain.
[00:22:57] He experiences all of it and he looks down and he thinks of others.
[00:23:03] Beloved were you there when they crucified my Lord.
[00:23:08] The God of the universe stumbles under the weight of his own cross.
[00:23:13] His own people have sent him to the cross.
[00:23:18] His closest friends have abandoned him but it all happens under the sovereign hand of
[00:23:24] the loving father.
[00:23:26] Why?
[00:23:27] Because God so loved the world that he sent his only son, that those who believe in him
[00:23:34] will not die, the death of the unrighteous but will have eternal life.
[00:23:41] A day that looked like any other just a routine execution for the soldiers just another
[00:23:48] day in Jerusalem in the first century but because of Christ.
[00:23:53] Because he was willing to go to the cross and face the punishment that the first Adam
[00:23:57] plunged humanity into to rescue us from ourselves.
[00:24:02] We too can stand at the cross as people transformed by his death just as these women were.
[00:24:12] We were transformed by the love of God which was perfectly displayed on Good Friday and
[00:24:17] Resurrection Sunday.
[00:24:19] As we know that Sunday is coming, we can die to self, die to the wicked ways of our heart,
[00:24:26] live in the newness of life with the love of God in us and live in the light of the resurrection.
[00:24:34] Great tragedy could even befall us but we now live as people of hope.
[00:24:41] Were you there when they crucified my Lord?
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